Along comes Darcy

You’re about 15 years old. You’ve just finished reading Pride and Prejudice and you’re in love. You love Mr Darcy. You read and re-read the book till you remember ‘that’ letter word for word. You carry his image in your mind, or…. heart, they’re pretty much one and the same at 15. You feel for Elizabeth. You are Elizabeth. Actually, you are every girl who ever read Pride and Prejudice.

Then you grow up. You mature. You realize Mr Darcy was a teenage crush. Or so you think till along comes Colin Firth. And you fall in love, yet again.. with Mr Darcy. This one remains my favourite Darcy ever.

This is one post I’ve been looking forward to. What? Just because I gave him a miss at the D you thought I forgot? Nah, never. I saved him up to follow Elizabeth. It’s got to be F for Fitzwilliam Darcy from Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice.

Mr Darcy

Mr Darcy – two people in one

For most people Mr Darcy is a rich snob. He is critical, proud and pompous. He is unapologetically insensitive and rude. He makes no effort to be friendly; rather, he revels in being unfriendly. The only excuse of his atrocious behavior might be his shyness and the fact that he is socially inept. However, it seems more likely that he considers it a perk of his position – this freedom to be rude to whoever he wants to, which is most people.

Then there’s the other Mr Darcy – The one who is generous and thoughtful, who loves his family, is a kind and considerate employer and knows exactly what to do in a crisis. What’s more, he also loves passionately and doesn’t hesitate to express how he feels, no matter how difficult it is. How many heroes would have the courage and honesty to conquer their ego and propose to the same woman twice?

Had the first Mr Darcy not come wrapped in the whole Pemberley package he would have been booed out of respectable society. Even with Pemberley, all he evokes in the one thinking woman of that time, Elizabeth, is disgust. The second one, the knight in shining armour kind, is the perfect, the make-one-go-weak-in-the-knees kind. But then so are scores of others.

Mr Darcy is special because…

…he is both those people. That is what makes him an endurable figure. A nice man is nice but a not-nice man who turns nice when he falls in love – ummm… that’s the stuff of dreams. What woman can resist a man who she can reform through her ‘love’? Darcy makes Lizzie look good.

What makes him irresistible is :
– that soft heart in an impervious exterior.
– that he isn’t easily available.
– that it takes a special girl to bring out the hero.
– that he places intellect over stunning looks (Jane Bennet) as well as money and position (Caroline Bingley)
Add to the mix his wealth and good looks and he is absolutely divine.

I do have a few doubts though:

One: Would Lizzie have spared him a second glance had he not been rich and handsome?
And two: Does he really change? Or did he simply admit Lizzie (and by extension, her family) into that inner circle where he was always nice while continuing to be his abominable self the world at large?

Ugh! I’ve gone and spoilt him for me with all this analyzing. Need to detox. Off on a P&P drool-fest to undo the damage. What? I meant drooling on the popcorn while watching P&P. What did you think?


It’s a G next week and the it’ll be a man on the blog – not too nice a man maybe, but a very very powerful one. Take a guess, if you can.

Linking up to ABC Wednesday where we’re doing posts on the letter ‘F’. Do drop by and check out other Fabulous posts.

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31 Replies to “Along comes Darcy”

  1. A heart warming post on Mr Darcy and the woman of his dreams. Pride and Prejudice is a timeless literature that finds echo today. How about re-adapting it to a blog story?


    1. Vishal enough people have tried their hand at re-telling P&P. A blog retelling would sure be fun but a very courageous thing to do.


  2. Oh, the crush we all had Mr Darcy, ages ago!! This post is pushing me to read Pride and Prejudice again!


    1. You don’t know how I’ve been kicking myself for that same reason. I should have done the mushy dreamy post that I wanted to do first.


  3. I do remember in the Firth version Elizabeth seems to change her mind about him when she takes a visit to his stately pile. I can take any amount of retelling of Pride and Prejudice.


  4. love love love your posts and even if I’ve read the book, it makes me want to reread it!

    abcw team


    1. You have no idea how your comment motivates me Leslie. Thank you. I’m already looking forward to G.


  5. Yes, Colin Firth is the best Darcy yet. The Matthew guy in the Ang Lee movie comes pretty close. Darcy and Elizabeth changed in that they admitted each other into their hearts. Outside of their circle, I suspect Darcy and Elizabeth continue to be snobs and address people according to their supposed stature (correct word?) in life.
    The View from the Top of the Ladder


    1. Mathhew Mcfarland – yeah that was him but I like Colin Firth way better. Bang on correct word :-).


  6. Firstly my apologies for a late comment, i have been far to busy repairing my blog after a moval from one host to another… and taking care of other things that needed to be taken care of since my husband and i have health issues at the same time.

    For readers and viewers a place to escape to for a while from our real (and hard cruel) world

    have a nice weekend

    Melody (abc-w-team)


  7. William Darcy is one of the most intriguing characters in the novel.
    I hated ‘Bride&Prejudice’ but loved Martin Henderson as Darcy in that movie..he stole my heart ❤
    hehe 🙂


    1. Heh heh we all have our own Darcy’s to love. Henderson comes in a close second but Colin Firth rules for me.


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